At one time I got sick of hearing that crap, now after experiencing it, I have learned my lesson, I messed up, I prayed for what I wanted not what God wanted, and you see now I am single. It was hell on earth, not saying being with him was, just how everything went, it wasnt a relationship from God, its why were not together, So I came across this little note, I hope you enjoy.
'A Womans heart should be so lost in God that he must seek him in order to find her'
“ Wait for a man that will put in the time, heart, & effort to pursue you. None of this whole “chasing around boys who don’t really like us and pine when they reject us” business. Wait for God to set you up with one who will put in time to win your heart. How can he do that though if you’re throwing it at him? Be secure enough in yourself and your Father that you don’t need to throw your heart around and give it away to any man who winks his eye at you. Be a woman, secure in God, deadly to the devil, feminine in strength, purity, and tenderness, and give your man a chance to be a man. Let the boys go who blow you off and expect you to let them walk all over you or just plain won’t put in effort to get to know you at all. Let them go, and position yourself as a woman satisfied in Herself & Her life. Give yourself to knowing God, give yourself to loving others, and your man will come alongside you. You will never have to strive to make him like you, to make him talk to you. He will be already a man in pursuit of your heart without your help.
So my advice dont let society or your peers push you into dating, yes I was so excited to have my first boyfriend because it was everything I wanted and prayed for right down to the T, but after it was all over with, it wasnt from God, and I know this for a fact or we would still be together. God has somebody out there for me, and he has someone out there for you, trust me, and trust him. Im trusting God with everything I have its all I have left. Im not looking for a guy and im not worried about it, When God puts him in my life Im sure i'll know. My adivce Pray and make sure it is the guy/girl that God has for you, and you'll know if it is or not. I thought relationships were a walk in the park, but boy was I wrong haha. Keep your head up if your single or looking, your heart needs to be of Gods Love before he'll send you somebody and when he does keep focused on him, dont loose sight of his love in the relationship. God will supply all your needs according to his glory, and his plan for you. We have to trust him and his timing, its all for his glory, he has our best interest. Dont let the world and peers presure you into dating or because it looks all good and fun from the outside, and because everybody else is dating it takes work to make a good realtionship last, it'll be even easier when you wait for the ONE God has coming for you <3
'I will be treasured over all the earth'
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